28 Dec

Why Him?

Why Him?

First i am going to describe myself in the situation just to help the picture a little bit so it is easier for you to help me. I am a 13 year old girl who just moved to a new middle school and who has known this person since school started and would never think of him in the dating type way but all of a sudden just started to dream about him and have been ever since.

I was on the bus just putting my stuff onto the seat and looking out of the window into the darkness with stars still shining, I sit down and look over at him and he smiles at me and I smile back and then he starts to talk to me like asking how I am, how my night was, what I’m doing this weekend, just making conversation with me (he never talks in the morning like no matter what cause I mean everyone is so tired) then he stops talking and just looks at me when I turn around in my seat and after I look over to talk to him again he is where one of my good friends usually sit and I jump in surprise. He starts to talk when the bus stops to pick up more students along with my friend and he looks weird like he was about to tell me he’s dying or something really important. After a few minutes he realizes that she isn’t on the bus today and starts to tell me something and as I am listening I realize he likes me, like really really likes me. “look from the moment you got on the bus your first day and sat down on your seat and put your earbuds in and started to read, I knew that you were something special and ugh I don’t know, I just, I like you a lot. I hope if you don't feel the same way about me it won’t affect our friendship.” He gets cut off by my other friends coming on the bus with everything looking normal but him and I with huge smiles on our faces.

What does this mean? I never dream about this kind of stuff and I would never think of him in that way like we are just friends but for the past week and a half he is all i can dream about. Pls comment below on what you think this means and what i should do///


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  • Christina Hubbard
    DreamsCloud
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    Christina Hubbard

    Posted on Jan 5, 2017

    Hi Dreamer2002, thank you for sharing your dream. If this were my dream, I would think about the traits that I appreciate about this boy, and consider how my dream is showing me that I would like to bring some of those qualities out in my own personality. I would think that the bus symbolizes “group” mentality or blending in with the crowd, and that I am hoping that I will stand out in some way that makes me feel special or socially accepted. I would ask myself, “How have recent changes left me feeling like I need to reassert my ‘place’ (bus seat) in social settings? And what do I like about this boy, and want to see more of in myself as I negotiate a new environment?”


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      • dreamer2002

        dreamer2002

        Posted on Jan 5, 2017

        Hi Christina, wow that really helped me thank you so much. Why do you think I have had this every night for a few weeks now? Does my dream have anything to do with actually liking the boy in my dream?


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        • dreamer2002

          dreamer2002

          Posted on Jan 5, 2017

          Hi Christina, wow that really helped me thank you so much. Why do you think I have had this every night for a few weeks now? Does my dream have anything to do with actually liking the boy in my dream?


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            • Christina Hubbard
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              Christina Hubbard

              Posted on Jan 5, 2017

              Hi dreamer, usually when I dream of someone in a romantic way, it symbolizes "combining" what I like about them with my own traits, and isn't necessarily literal. However, I would consider the possibility that you have unacknowledged feelings for this boy, your dream is helping to reveal them, and that it's recurring because you haven't figured this out yet. It's definitely a good time to contemplate and evaluate your feelings, and maybe you'll discover something that you hadn't realized in your waking mind! Thanks for asking!


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