Not a dream a visitor possibly an incubus definitely not the first.
There is an old demon, witch from the old Norse, that gives you a kiss or hangs out with you to see what you will do. If you choose wrong she teaches you the lesion of hard knocks.
I'm having trouble reading your whole comment but it was a black form presence either it was once human and it's too far removed. Or whatever it is is becoming human. He embraced me but it wasn't sexual or threatening like some I have had. I could feel him growl on the back of my neck like he was trying to communicate. I won't lie I panicked a bit and when it knew I knew he wasn't quite human he released the hold and I opened my eyes literally.