Friend

Friend

I had a close friend named Jane. She committed suicide about a year ago. The reason why is because she suffered depression from both her parents and people at school. As for me, I was considered her best and only friend. Why? Because I always took up for her, all day, everyday and I would could always keep a promise and could make her laugh.She was too scared to see a therapist even when I tried to push her to see one. Anyway, I had a dream that went like this...
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I was at school and at my locker.Everything was calm and normal until I heard a voice from two nearby girls. One, with a long brown ponytail, said- "Yea, she had a knife, I think." The other, with short blonde hair, responded saying- " Oh well, no one talked to her...she was so weird, like, she's that type of person that no one notices...just sits in a corner and stuff." When I heard that, I did get mad and walked up to them saying- " Well, maybe if you would've actually NOTICED and talked positive to her, instead of talking negative, maybe you could've found out why she was so "weird" and you two are great examples as to why she did that to herself, and Jane had way more sense than you could probably ever have. She was the smartest girl I've ever met, and she didn't have anyone to see it, except me!" It was silence after that. The two girls just looked at each other, the blonde muttered- "Umm.." and they walked off. I turned around to go back to my locker, and Jane appeared and gave me a hug, crying. The dream ended after that.


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  • InkBlot

    InkBlot

    Posted on Jan 19, 2017

    I feel that sometimes we dream about people we were really close with just because we miss so much. My best friend and I didn't part on the best of terms and I haven't spoken to her in 6 years but I dream about her quite often. Sorry about Jane. :(


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      • Solara  Aensland

        Solara Aensland

        Posted on Jan 19, 2017

        I know right? And thanks for your consideration, sorry about your friend as well.


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      • Travis Wernet
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        Travis Wernet

        Posted on Jan 19, 2017

        HI Solara Aensland. If this were my dream it's doing lots of things all-at-once. On one crucial level, it shows me sticking up for Jane and she sees that and shows me that she does. It's as if we're making contact in the dream, even though she's "departed" and this feels like it helps us both. On another level, the dream wants me to 'get' that death and suicide (at least in the dream world) are metaphors of deep change and with suicide, it's a chosen and willful version. So I'd ask myself if the dream might be suggesting that I'm up for a profound change and transformation within my own self that clearly relates to my connection with Jane and a sense of advocacy for folks who are seen as "different", but which also applies to me and how I am growing and learning too?


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        • John O'Connell

          John O'Connell

          Posted on Jan 19, 2017

          id say its a safety valve dream letting you express your anger in a safe way. the knife could represent her being stabbed in the back as they say when people cut you down behind your back.. when jane appeared it couldve been her way of thanking you for being there for her. Im so sorry to hear about your friend i know what its like ive had depression fr 25 years and i tried suicide its like a disease to some people as its always there it can draw your energy and life force and make you believe you have nothing to live for. say a prayer for her or light a candle in her memory thats what i would do God bless you and your friend Jane...John


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          • Genevieve Wilson

            Genevieve Wilson

            Posted on Jan 19, 2017

            Wow...I have done that before, and it is nice that you saw her in your dream...that is cool, I am sorry she is gone!!! You sound like an awesome friend though!!!!


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            • Cora L. Sanchez

              Cora L. Sanchez

              Posted on Jan 21, 2017

              Good day,,,, Read my testimony!!! Getting ex back after a breakup. Am Cora L. Sanchez 30 from UK, my boyfriend of a 2year just broke up with me and am 28 weeks pregnant. I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again. Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes, my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time. Generally he is a very nice guy, he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along. He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot. After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change. I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with. I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe. He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy, he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy. i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Ahmed can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 22 hours later, my boyfriend came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my boyfriend are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Ahmed. as it is a place to resolve marriage/relationship issues, do you want to be sure if your spouse is being faithful to you or Do you want your Ex to come back to you Contact.: E-mail: Ahmedutimate@gmail.com/ call/Whats-app: +2348160153829 save your crumbling home and change of grades its 100% safe. I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you.


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              • Cora L. Sanchez

                Cora L. Sanchez

                Posted on Jan 21, 2017

                Good day,,,, Read my testimony!!! Getting ex back after a breakup. Am Cora L. Sanchez 30 from UK, my boyfriend of a 2year just broke up with me and am 28 weeks pregnant. I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again. Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes, my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time. Generally he is a very nice guy, he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along. He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot. After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change. I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with. I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe. He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy, he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy. i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Ahmed can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 22 hours later, my boyfriend came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my boyfriend are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Ahmed. as it is a place to resolve marriage/relationship issues, do you want to be sure if your spouse is being faithful to you or Do you want your Ex to come back to you Contact.: E-mail: Ahmedutimate@gmail.com/ call/Whats-app: +2348160153829 save your crumbling home and change of grades its 100% safe. I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you.


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                • Cora L. Sanchez

                  Cora L. Sanchez

                  Posted on Jan 21, 2017

                  Good day,,,, Read my testimony!!! Getting ex back after a breakup. Am Cora L. Sanchez 30 from UK, my boyfriend of a 2year just broke up with me and am 28 weeks pregnant. I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again. Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes, my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time. Generally he is a very nice guy, he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along. He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot. After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change. I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with. I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe. He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy, he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy. i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Ahmed can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 22 hours later, my boyfriend came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my boyfriend are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Ahmed. as it is a place to resolve marriage/relationship issues, do you want to be sure if your spouse is being faithful to you or Do you want your Ex to come back to you Contact.: E-mail: Ahmedutimate@gmail.com/ call/Whats-app: +2348160153829 save your crumbling home and change of grades its 100% safe. I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you.


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                  • Cora L. Sanchez

                    Cora L. Sanchez

                    Posted on Jan 21, 2017

                    Good day,,,, Read my testimony!!! Getting ex back after a breakup. Am Cora L. Sanchez 30 from UK, my boyfriend of a 2year just broke up with me and am 28 weeks pregnant. I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again. Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes, my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time. Generally he is a very nice guy, he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along. He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot. After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change. I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with. I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe. He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy, he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy. i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Ahmed can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 22 hours later, my boyfriend came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my boyfriend are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Ahmed. as it is a place to resolve marriage/relationship issues, do you want to be sure if your spouse is being faithful to you or Do you want your Ex to come back to you Contact.: E-mail: Ahmedutimate@gmail.com/ call/Whats-app: +2348160153829 save your crumbling home and change of grades its 100% safe. I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you.


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                    • Elphaba Girl

                      Elphaba Girl

                      Posted on Jan 22, 2017

                      I think that was a very sweet dream, and it probably means that you're still ready to take up blows for her. It's a symbol that you're still clearly her best friend.<3


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                      • AdelinaHill

                        AdelinaHill

                        Posted on Jan 23, 2017

                        Sounds like you made jane so happy that you stood up for her. Even though she has passed she came to you in a dream to thank you for what you did. She must be at peace. God bless you


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                        • Gail

                          Gail

                          Posted on Jan 24, 2017

                          I had a friend that suicided. I felt guilty like I should've helped her more. I wonder if what you said to those girls in your dream was what you wished you told her while she was alive. The locker makes me think of a locked place, maybe where you hide feelings or thoughts of her. At least she heard you in your dream. I'm sorry for your loss, it must have been wonderful to hug her in your dream.


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                          • cecidragonfly

                            cecidragonfly

                            Posted on Jan 30, 2017

                            One of my best friends committed suicide 2 years ago. It was devastating. Every day I would do or think of something that would remind me of her. More than a year after she committed suicide, I dreamed with her... She was plain gorgeous and I was able to say "I love you" to her. Next day I woke up and felt in peace and relaxed.


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                            • SleepingBeauty

                              SleepingBeauty

                              Posted on Feb 4, 2017

                              So sad. Looks like she truly wanted to come back and thank you for openly taking up for her while she was living and after and not keeping things locked in.


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