13 Feb

Cheating Spouse

Cheating Spouse

I had a dream that i was sleeping by my spouse and i woke up in that dream to see that he was having sex with a mutual friend of ours right next to me.. it felt sooo real...I do not remember the rest of it.. He told me recently that he used to have sexual relations with a female (not the same person in the dream) before we got together... Ive been around this person alot and considered her a friend and kind of forced into being her friend because no one told me anything but if he had told me what it was between them i would have had nothing to do with her... And i found out that the person was laughing behind my back with other people.. Is my dream just playing off of the fact that i don't really trust my husband and people who are close to me anymore?


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  • Travis Wernet
    Professional Reflector

    Travis Wernet

    Posted on Feb 14, 2017

    Hi Krissi92. If this were my dream, I at least want to consider that the dream is showing me important aspects of my own being so that I can make the best choices in my life. In my experience, dreams always speak in metaphors and symbols (even when they're also being literal) and so I focus on the reality that the friend my spouse is sleeping with shows my male self connecting with this "friend" that I also am on some level. It could help me to know 1) how do I feel in the dream itself and 2) how would I describe the friend/woman in the dream in one or two words (this gives me a clue about what my dream is showing me becoming more aware of)?

    • blackdynamiteg1


      Posted on Feb 21, 2017

      I'm no dream expert.but I think you answered your own question at the end. You do not trust your spouse on some level and you subconscious mind is telling you that.Its also possible that you have been picking up on some peculiar behavior of his on some level that you really have not thought about much and you subconscious mind is thinking about it however. He may actually be messing around or at the very least on some level you think there is a possibility that he is.